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Hey troublemaker, Vish here.
Wasn't exactly planning on reaching out, but letting things just vanish without a word didn't sit right with me. Hence, this letter. I’ve been intending to reach out for the past few weeks but have been quite occupied with work and everything.
I didn’t reach out for a couple of days over the weekend after we met on Wednesday because my uncle passed away, someone very close to me. I'm sure you noticed my silence. It was a deeply disturbing time for my family, and I needed space to process it all. Hence, why I went silence for two days.
When I finally returned on Monday evening, all set to hit you up—bam! You’d already vanished like a magician’s grand finale. Hahaha. The last message I got from you was a snap from the previous night.
A depiction of your disappearance. Hahaha
Perhaps you thought I was ghosting/ignoring you, I wasn’t—life just threw me a curveball with my uncle's death, and I needed a moment.
But you know what’s crazy? I was actually going to tell you something interesting when I reached out on Monday. Do you know that we’re actually related? Your mother name is Devi right? And I personally know some of your cousins? And get this, I got to know that my family even attended your cousin’s wedding that happened recently at JRC. Small world, huh? Wild coincidence!
Anyway, I was never here for random hookups or one-night stands. I'm here for a beautiful and genuine connection that’s fun, lively, vibrant, playful, and effortless—the kind where we tease, laugh until our stomachs hurt, explore intimate and sensual connection together, and connect with each other on all levels, all while respecting each other’s space and boundaries.
No pressure, no judgements, no clinginess, no drama, and no toxic attachments, just great energy, mutual respect, care, affection, and admiration.
Clinginess might look cute. It is like a cat on your keyboard—kinda cute, but also kinda in the way. Not for me!
If you thought I was ghosting you—plot twist! I wasn’t. But hey, if you had some other reason for vanishing like a magician, that’s completely your call—no hard feelings. I don’t believe in forcing connections.
Still, after all the time we spent chatting, getting to know each other, meeting up, and actually getting close and intimate with each other… a proper goodbye would have been a decent way to close things out, wouldn't it? We weren't total strangers after all.
And I'm not the kind of person who begs people to stay if they don't want to—that's your choice, and I respect it. Therefore, a simple farewell would have been nice.
That said, there’s something I can’t shake off. After we met, I noticed a few things about you—things that genuinely surprised me in the best way. Most people would probably overlook them, but they stood out to me. I intended to tell you in our future conversations, but, well… you vanished before I got the chance.
Anyway, I could've just let it go—no big deal—let you fade into the past like a story without an ending. But I guess that’s what doesn’t sit right with me—there was NO ENDING. Just a sudden stop.
One day we were talking, laughing, sharing bits of our lives, and the next… nothing. I like proper endings—if ending things between us is what you want.
And also, I’m definitely not a fan of miscommunication, nor do I prefer to leave things on a weird, unfinished note.
So here I am, saying what I wish I could’ve said after my couple of days of silence. I sent you a Snapchat request again right after I noticed your disconnect to say just this. Not sure if you missed it or if that was your way of reflecting my silence back at me.
With no way to reach you, my only options were to send a carrier pigeon or show up at your doorstep like a Amazon package—but don’t worry, I’m neither desperate, unhinged, nor intrusive. So, here I am, choosing this gentle way instead to get my message across.
Anyway, troublemaker (that’s your new name, hehehe), if you ever want to reconnect, I’m open to it. You can reach me at 701-322-7507 or on snap (IAMVISH111). If not, that’s okay too. As much as I enjoy conversing with you, I’m not one to impose. Totally your call. Between, I shifted to Financial District. Rented a flat for myself.
That said, no matter what you decide. I genuinely wish you nothing but the best in everything ahead. May your future be so bright that it fills your life with happiness, and endless opportunities.
It was lovely knowing you, young lady, and if we ever reconnect, I’m sure we’d have plenty of exciting things to talk and laugh about.
We were just getting to know each other. With time, we could have become comfortable enough to fully open up to each other and create the most beautiful, hilarious and exciting memories together. But hey, no hard feelings, no grudges—just appreciation for the time we shared.
Maybe our paths will cross again in some unexpected way, or maybe not.
And hey, those things I noticed about you after our date? Still on my mind. And about us being related—there’s a fun little twist to that too. I wonder if you’ll ever get to hear it, or if it’ll just stay a mystery.
Either way, take care and stay awesome.
P.S. That snake plant wasn’t just a random gift—it was my sneaky way of saying, “May something good always take root in your life, and may life always bloom beautifully for you.” So, water it well, don’t let it die on me. Hahaha.
And hey, always keep smiling. You look absolutely beautiful when you do.
Big hugs.
~ Vish